Cantor will call both you and the Candle Lighting participant to the pulpit at the appropriate time. You should bring your prayer book with you.
After the Candle Lighting participant has said the Candle lighting blessing in Hebrew and English, you will read starting at the bottom of page 9 in English. At the top of page 10 you will lift the cup of wine (actually, it’s grape juice) and read the blessing in Hebrew then English (at the top of page 10 through “Creator of the fruit of the vine”). Continue to hold up Kiddush cup. After Cantor sings the Kiddush, take a sip of the “wine”. Then both participants will return to their seats.
NOTE: If you want to brush up on the Hebrew part of the prayer below, click this link to hear a recording of Cantor Roskin saying the Kiddush.